If you are wondering how to approach a girl sitting next to you in class, you should remember the following four tips that will help you. These tips and others like them are often discussed on the dating radio show I co-host.
ONE: Let him notice you
I know the first tip sounds opposite of what you might expect. How can you get closer letting her watch you? You have to realize that all the other men in the world are trying to harass her. You are going to be different. You will be nice to her, but you have no idea what her situation is. Is she available? Does she like how you look? Is there any chance? You can’t find out those things until you have time with her. She will start to wonder why you are not like any other guy trying to get her attention.
TWO: Make her laugh
We teach the guys all the time to keep things light and fun. If she starts to like you, then you should NOT complain about the class or your lousy schedule or how bad you did on the last test. You are her comic relief when she comes to class and she should expect you to lighten her day.
THREE: Let him see you with other women
This can be hard to pull off because you may not know another soul in class, but if you have good “friends” who are attractive, let him see you laughing and joking with them before and after class. Women love to challenge and compete with each other. You become much more interesting to her if she thinks other attractive women are looking for your affection.
FOUR: If you receive buy signals, CLOSE
As amazing as it sounds, it’s one of the hardest things for a man to look at a woman and say “what’s your number?” and then shut up. If you know she’s single, if you’ve been making her laugh, if she’s making it clear that she likes you, then you need to close the deal. Don’t make a weak move by asking him to “maybe hang out after class sometime.” He asks for those digits and smiles as you do so. She will know that they are asking her out of it. If she rejects you, so what? You will be much better off in your life if you learn how to make a strong play for the women you like!
Remember guys, if you want to approach a girl sitting next to you in class, you need to get her to notice you first and then close if you get strong buying signals!