It seems to be a common assumption that all men are potentially ‘turned off’ by their girlfriends owning a vibrator, and that a dildo replaces a woman’s need for a man. This is certainly an incorrect assumption. Many women feel more comfortable buying a vibrator and using it to learn more about what they like best, but ultimately a dildo or vibrator helps improve their sexual relationship with you. If your girlfriend has a vibrator, incorporate it into your sexual play by taking control of her toy.
Most vibrators will have a speed dial, so make the most of the different settings when you play with it – start slowly with a low setting. Do not insert the vibrator directly into her vagina; Use the toy to tease her. Place the vibrator on different sensitive spots on your body – Enjoy discovering which sensations you like best by moving the vibrator over different parts of your body. Provoke her by moving the vibrator head around the clitoris without touching it directly, until she asks for more. For a variation, hold your vibrator in your hand as you caress your clitoris for a special pleasurable sensation.
As your partner approaches climax, play a game of cat and mouse, slowing the vibrator down again or pulling it back completely to tease your girlfriend until she moans for more. Women may find it difficult to orgasm through penetration alone, keeping the vibrator going as part of sex, putting her on top and placing the vibrator at the base of her penis will send waves of pleasure for both of you. Alternatively, you could tease her clitoris with a sex toy while taking her from behind her.
If you are not sure about using a vibrator to tease and please your girlfriend, ask her to show you what she likes to do with her own toy, what better way than to watch and learn? Another option to drive her crazy is a wireless vibrator, which gives you control over her orgasm. Nothing can beat the thrill of a man controlling his partner’s pleasure via remote control. The use of wireless remote controls means the opportunities to enjoy this discreet toy are endless; Make your girlfriend use it where she dares!
A vibrator can also provide incredible stimulation for men; Gently use it on the head, shaft and base of the penis. Anal vibrators can help achieve a great high for men and women, talk to your partner about what you enjoy and have fun looking for playthings and vibrators online together.